肺腑真言

Love - Fantasy & Reality

2009-03-11T01:34:00.004+08:00

Love, nowadays attacking almost all of human being on Earth. Girlfriend boyfriend's love, family's love, friendship's love etc.. I think if i list out, will be very long, so i just state out cases or situations that mostly ppl speak or can understand, Couple's Love. (i think this part you all want to know more right??)

Love divides into 2 main categories, fantasy and reality. Fantasy, mostly point to primary or secondary students. Don't be shock, even 12-year-old boy or girl know what is love, i think me last time also din so early mature or think about this... hahaha... Why i say fantasy is mostly point to primary and secondary student? This all i can prove from experience or what i look at nowadays small kids. They choose couple can be say as roughly choose, doesn't know whether the couple treat them good or not. Maybe starting good lar, but after certain time? who knows.. Maybe after the boy get the girl's "first time", the girl will be dump or clash. Or if this things never happen also, the girl or boy might be in fantasy life. Everything is for her bf or his gf. Sometimes don't hv anything except her bf or his gf. This, got 2 effects only. Good effect and side effect. Good effect - they both maybe will always meet and study together, push their results up. Side effect, a lot sad cases will appear in between both of them.

For reality part, mostly for university's students and working employee and employers. In this category, mostly they want to find the other half to be partner for whole life if can. Maybe you can see your friends keep change partners, but this not just play play, because they already know what is their responsibility to their partners. Maybe sometimes will appear those romantics stuff or what, but, most of them know how to control themselves, maybe some of them still play play, but not all.

Fantasy and reality, two situation that seldom appear together. But in love, this two situation sometimes will appear together. Want to know what situation or condition? I sure you know more than me. Hahaha...

For my advise, don't only stay in fantasy world, coz this maybe will change the way of your thinking, once a while is ok... And, try to face the reality of love in this world, and maybe you will discover more than what you want to gain...

For next episode, i plan to write others style to love or being love... do drop me an idea and i'll try to write out in next episode...

~Love~

2009-03-10T01:08:00.002+08:00

Seems long time no update blog with those stupid title already.. but from ppl's demand, now i try to express my word in english, (although i'm very noob in my english).

The title that ppl ask me to write down, is Love.

According to wikipedia, Love is any of a number of emotions and experiences related to a sense of strong affection and attachment. The word love can refer to a variety of different feelings, states, and attitudes, ranging from generic pleasure to intense interpersonal attraction.

Just now is the description from wiki, now below here is from my view of angle.

Love, is one kind of expression, that maybe you like someone or something most, and maybe sometimes you willing to do anything to obtain, achieve or protect him/her or it. Some ppl may say love is just a toy that God give to us as human being, but this is totally incorrect. This is because, not only human know how to love, but animals also know. A mother of cat loves her kittens, willing to do anything and everything to protect her kittens from outsider's attack.

Love, is a deep, tender, ineffable feeling of affection and solicitude toward a person, such as that arising from kinship, recognition of attractive qualities, or a sense of underlying oneness.

Love, is not that just say " I Love you" " You Love Me" like that only. If just come out from mouth, that is not call true love. A true love friends or couple, willing to do anything to you, and even sometimes don't want you to know or realize what is happen. A true love is giving out without hoping for returns. A true love is willing to do anything and everything at the border of capability, and without thinking worth or not.

Some ppl says that love is blind. Why? Because love will make you into deep deep trouble. What trouble? This depends on what is your situation. Some may good, some may bad, some may worst. Why i say so? Good, will make you do your things more effective and efficient. Bad, you will always hope for him/her attraction or maybe somebody call it, get him/her attention. Worst, you maybe do things beyond the border of safety, that maybe will affect or ruins your whole life. Why like this? This maybe their couple ask them to do for both of their goods.

As an example, a boy maybe will defend all his girlfriend's crime, to show the love to her. A lot of ppl call this love. But i call this, STUPID!!! A love no need to do until this level, if do until this level, means he got a bit short circuit in brain, or maybe he totally no brain, or he had been cheated by the girl. The case can be opposite, or maybe more ridiculous. But don't be shock, coz really got such ridiculous case in this world.

As my opinion, the word "Love", is see how you want to express or translate it. Nobody can know much further except yourself. It is all depends on you own.

How is my translation? All ppl wanna know? Let it be in next articles, coming soon.

This article will be continue, and at that time, i try to tell out or put out how to love correctly, not just love blindly without any direction or motto.

To be continue.......

FYP Part 2

2009-03-03T21:37:00.002+08:00

so long i din update my blog, now onli update..

now busy with FYP part 2... really not a joke... everything u learn, will be use in this project..
as for me, i learn machining, design, a little bit programming... all now used in my project.. sometimes still knock wall.. dunno how to continue it...

dunno should regret or lucky take this title.. last time when ppl ask me about FYP and i tell them, some of them starring at me, see whether i can do it or not... some shock see i take this title... some... dunno got any expression...

but really hope i can finish it on time n achieve targets and missions.. so that i can prove to lecturers, not only electronic students know how to do circuit, but mechanical also ROXXX!!!!!

Walking to new way...

2008-11-04T01:30:00.004+08:00

Seems like i long time no update blog. Sorry coz last time quite busy with FYP presentation, final exam etc.. now is the time waiting result out.. but dunno, the feel oso same like last time - scary =.=!!!

You see my title, sure feel very weird. Why i wrote such stupid title. But i now really slowly making turn of my life way. Slowly expose myself to my family business. I dunno how you all will look at me. Maybe u all will say i hv no big dream. Maybe, coz i just wanna pass through simple lifestyle, finish study, work, work, sleep at nite, and maybe 95% decrement of entertainment. I think a lot ppl feel wanna create job or create own successful, but it is all same. After finish degree, find work, den maybe jump to other company for better job or salary, then work for increment in salary n promotion, till certain level and keep work till retired.

But, you can create your own working field, which will not be tie from other person. So, what for tie yourself to the condition if you able to create own achievement.

I dunwan talk so much, later no more employee in this world and full with leader, then i really become killer in economy. Hahaha... I try to post up regulary, but dun hope too much. Maybe only when the mood come. Hahaha..

Midterm Exam and Midterm Break Planning

2008-07-24T15:13:00.005+08:00

Now, already week 6. Next week is week 7, which means midterm exam coming soon. I know next week i got 3 paper to go, but till now only study 1 subject, i also dunno whether i can finish it or not. sigh...

3 midterm paper in role, i never do it before. In such condition, i should continue study, but why i still update this boring topic. I also dunno, maybe ppl said my blog too little script. I try upload it by using english lor. Maybe english easier to write down normal feeling, but if wan describe some special event or memorials, i feel gonna use chinese better. Wahahahaha...

1 week more, midterm break coming. But i din plan to enjoy whole week, coz i need to find something for my FYP things, such as sensor, pinion and gear. No choice, mechanical student, FYP need to me related to mechanical also. Hope my structure come out meet my requirement, without any failure. But now no more " ang kong " with me, all "ang kong" run away ady, so all things need to stand on my own.

9th - 11th August, MMU 9th convocation. A lot of my friends, including u, will graduate that time. At here, i with my greatest regards, wish you all Happy Graduation, and also Good Luck in your Future. Wish i also can finish my degree on my schedule, which 1 year late from original schedule.

Last but not least, Good Luck to all my friends. Stay keep in touch, and don't forget, if wanna throw "red bomb", need to look good timing, don't throw on my exam week, wahahahhahaa...

FYP

2008-07-24T03:22:00.004+08:00

FYP FYP FYP!!!

this is the word of all final year student.. "FYP progress how??" "done research??" I also dunno what my progress till now. Count finalize design already, but really not yet satisfied.

What my title? "Automated Storage & Retrieval System"
Know what is that? err... maybe know. But, i really slap myself d. Last time i told myself, don't take any automated title, but now, i also dunno why i go take this title. Maybe i don't have any choice already bah. Hope can complete within schedule, not campus schedule, but is my own schedule. I really hope i can make out a good FMS (Factory Management System) which maybe i can implement in my shop or anywhere. I'll try update my FYP progress in my blog.

Maybe some of u will feel weird, previously my script all in Chinese, but now in English. This is because FYP things, i really dunno how to write in Chinese. If really write in Chinese, then i really took wrong course, i should go study on Chinese Literature... Wahahaha..

Lastly, hope my FYP can be done on schedule, although now i feel is behind schedule already.
GOD bless all of my friends who taking FYP now.

大学的回忆 - 第二篇

2008-06-30T01:35:00.005+08:00

这篇文章是继篇第一篇的。希望可以写下在马六甲第一年所发生的事情。

刚刚到达马六甲的时候，什么都不懂。真所谓，出门靠朋友，在这边认识新朋友，学习怎样独立生活，还有开始大学的生活。还记得，迎新活动，大家都还很模模糊糊，只能靠些学长带路，剩下的全都靠自己。

第一年，什么都不知道，只好慢慢的适应这边的环境。在这边，认识很多新朋友。Andrew, Stephen, Sheng Lin, K Vynn, Nai Tung, Allen, Christ；这些都是我的同屋朋友。然后，在日语学会，认识更多。Danny, Luis, Wee Li, Marcus, Nicole,Boon Siew, Jeannette, Anne, Weedy, Kaixuan, Jason, Yen Ching 还有很多，如果写下去，会感觉爆满。

很多人说，来大学不止来求学，还可以在这里开始发展你的网络。因为，只是在大学你有最好的机会去自造很广的网络。

也许这篇文章有点短，希望第三篇，第四篇，第五篇还可以在接下去我的故事，让大家都有美好的回忆。

大学毕业前的宴会

2008-05-24T05:30:00.006+08:00

感受不是很好，所以才写着张文章，希望大家看了，别流眼泪。

今天，可以讲是大家考试的最后一天，最后一张（不包括我）。为了要庆祝考完试，Pure Bar。晚上大概十点半开始，一直跳舞喝酒到凌晨两点。可是，可以讲是我们最后一次的聚会，陈我们还没离开学院，大家就开始互相怀抱，拍照留念。其实，这种情况每次都有发生，但今晚的气氛可是不同。

机械工程系的朋友们，大家已经一起读书，考试，测验，我们一起所经过的日子，可以讲是比起别个系科还要更长，更久。大家自从大学一年，到大学四年，七七八八的课目都一起拿，一起念。我们一起所经过的风风雨雨，可不能用一把尺来度量。可以说，考试之后，我们一定会聚在一起。但是，今天可是我们这样久以来，第一次和最后一次这么大的聚会。以后大家不知道还有没有机会见面。大家毕业后，各分东西。我在东，你在南，他在西，他在北。我们可减免的日子，会变成特别的少。

其实，不只是机械工程系，这五年以来所认识的朋友，大部分都会离开。心里中有一点酸，不舍得大家的离开。虽然属语说，天下无不散的宴席，但是，分手的感受，真的很难接受。我不怕跟大家说，刚才在酒吧，我的眼泪已经掉了下来。心里总是有点不是很想接受这个事实，但，实施很难改变。我们来这里，是为了获得一张文凭，将来可以找到好工作，不需要唉穷。

在写这篇文章的时候，眼泪也跟着掉，心里总是很伤心，悲哀的感觉。虽然这样子，但我还祝大家，事业进步，步步高升，平安无穷，时时想年我们的回忆。

凌晨六点，掉着眼泪的挂上文章的句号。

六道轮回

2008-05-11T02:08:00.006+08:00

突然灵感一来，想写关于佛道，那就写了这篇文章。

我们在佛教里，都有学到所谓六道轮回。所以在这边，我写了关于六道轮回的文章，希望大家读了有点感想。

佛陀概括世间一切有情，归为六大种类，有：天、人、阿修罗、畜生、饿鬼、地狱，这即是‘六道’。世上固有许多生物学家，对于动物，亦有其不同的分类法，却因受到个人智慧学问的限制，总不及佛陀的圆满周到。这因佛陀不但能见凡夫肉眼之所见（如人畜二道，而畜道凡夫亦只见其少分），且亦能见凡夫肉眼之所不见（如天、修罗、鬼、地狱四道）。学佛之人，以相信圣言量为依归，固不可因我之不见，遂谓为虚诞无有。

六道众生的状况，千差万别，一一细说，不胜繁杂，今为略举二端，藉知大概。1、是‘类受’，类指正报身心的种类，受指依报世界的享受。其中依报，诸多种类，单举寿长，以推余福。2、是‘苦厄’，苦是痛苦，厄是灾厄。六道果报，固然有别，总之不离观受是苦。

1、天道

天，是天然自然，享乐殊胜、身形殊胜之义；此道众生，居六道之首，威德特尊，神用自在，故名为天。

约‘类受’言：共分三界，即欲界、色界、无色界（亦名空界）；自下而上，计二十八层天。其中欲界六层，亦如人间，有男女饮食之欲；其第二层名忉利天，居须弥山顶，自有三十三天（此三十三天，约横面言），即山顶四角，各有八天，中为帝释天主，世俗所尊玉皇上帝，即指此言；而第六层，则名他化自在天，却是魔王波旬所居。又、色界有四禅十八层天，皆有禅定，已无男女饮食之欲，犹带身形楼阁诸色；其中前三禅各三天，第四禅有九天。又、无色界有四层天，入四空定，已无形相，只存神识。

天上各种享受，皆殊胜于人间；如食曰天厨妙味，共一器食，随福差别；衣曰天衣无缝，不似人间，千缝百补。至于寿命，亦长人间甚多：如第一层四王天，寿五百岁，却以人间五十年为一日计算。向上一层，按此间倍倍增加；如第二层忉利天，寿一千岁，却以人间百年为一日计；乃至第六层他化自在天，寿万六千岁，而以人间千六百年为一日计。如是递增，至非想非非想天，则寿八万大劫。这因前生造上品十善因缘，方得如此殊胜果报。

约‘苦厄’：欲界天有五衰，寿将尽时，自然头上花萎、腋下汗出、衣裳垢染、身体臭秽、不乐本座，是名五衰。五衰现时，知必当死，愁忧恐怖，苦等地狱。又、色界天有三灾，初为火灾，劫火兴时，初禅以下，尽化灰烬；二为水灾，劫水起时，二禅以下，皆遭淹没；三为风灾，大风所吹，三禅以下，乃至微尘，皆无余在。呜呼！所住器界尚不能存，何况寄居众生，安能永在？甚至四禅天人，虽具深禅定，一旦命终，即不乐入禅，风触吹身，唯除眼识，余皆有苦。又、无色界四天，虽无下面二界粗苦，仍有如疮（空无边处天）、如痈（识无边处天）、如病（无所有处天）、如箭入体（非非想处天）等微细苦；且寿命尽时，定力遂失，知当死堕，譬如高山忽坠深涧，生大恐怖。

2、人道

人，梵语摩冕赊，翻为意，以此道众生作一切事，皆先意起。法苑云：人者，忍也，于世违顺，人能安忍。

约‘类受’言：人道分布于四大星球之上，身形寿享，皆不相同。如东弗婆提，寿二百五十岁；南阎浮提，寿一百岁；西瞿尼，寿五百岁；北郁单越，寿一千岁。即以南阎浮提（亦即吾人所居地球）而言，五大洲上所居人种，发肤颜色、风俗习惯，乃至土地资源，亦多悬殊。然书经云：惟人为万物之灵；礼亦云：人者，天地之心，五行之端。盖以人易近道，最能止息妄心，堪能修行而言。此因前生行中品十善，感此道身。

约‘苦厄’言：三苦八苦等。

3、阿修罗道

阿修罗，此翻无端正，又翻无酒，或云非天。以此道众生男丑女端，故名无端正。又因遍采名花，酝于大海，欲成香醪；但以鱼龙业力，其味不变，故云无酒。因多嗔多忌，虽有天福，而无天德，故名非天。

约‘类受’言：此道众生，分别摄属天、人、畜、鬼四道，故楞严经云：三界中有四种修罗，若于鬼道，以护法力，乘通入空，此从卵生，鬼趣所摄。若于天中，降德贬坠，其所卜居，邻于日月，此从胎生，人趣所摄。有阿修罗王，执持世界，力洞无畏，能与梵王及天帝释、四天争权，此阿修罗，因变化有，天趣所摄。别有一分下劣修罗，生大海心，沉水穴口，旦游虚空，暮归水宿，此阿修罗，因湿气有，畜生摄属。既是分属四道，身形寿享等，亦随其类，多有不同。总由因中，虽行五常（君臣，父子，夫妇，兄弟，朋友），却怀忌慢之心，所谓行下品十善，而感此道身。

约‘苦厄’言：各随其类，受苦不同。即以天趣修罗而言，除一般苦外，又因常好与帝释斗，或断肢节，或破其身，或复致死；若伤心断节，续还如故；若断其首，即便殒没。其他三趣修罗，其苦更多。

4、畜生道

畜生，梵语底栗车，亦云傍生，以其形傍（身多横住），行为亦傍（心多不正），故云傍生。

约‘类受’言：此道众生，包含甚广，举凡飞禽走兽，羽毛鳞介，或四足多足，有足无足，水陆空行，皆摄属之。就其出生，分为四大类：

（1）、胎生，例如牛马等，在母胎中，含藏而出。

（2）、卵生，例如鹅鸟孔雀，依壳孵生。

（3）、湿生，例如蛤虫飞蛾，藉湿秽暖气而生。

（4）、化生，如龙等，无而忽有，唯依业力，变化而生。若论

寿命，有朝生而暮死，有春夏生而秋冬死，乃至经千百岁而后死者，千差万别；而其身形享受，亦多悬殊不等。

约‘苦厄’言：或苦役、或充食、或人杀、或互啖，其苦无穷。近代西方学者有言：‘弱肉强食、物竞天择’，可谓说中畜生道实况。总因前生愚痴贪欲，作下品五逆十恶，感此道身。

5、饿鬼道

饿鬼，梵语音译为??黎多、薜荔多、闭戾多、俾礼多、卑利多、弥荔多、即鬼道、鬼趣、饿鬼道。又鬼者畏也，饿云饥饿，此道众生，多受饥饿怖畏，故名饿鬼。

约‘类受’言：分三类九种，（1）无财鬼，以无福德，不得食故；（2）少财鬼，少得饮食故；（3）多财鬼，多得饮食故。无财鬼又分三：a、焰口鬼，火焰炎炽，常从口出；故纵得饮食，亦化灰烬。昔目连尊者母，即堕此身。b、针咽鬼，腹大如山，咽如针孔。c、臭口鬼，口中腐臭，自受恶报。少财鬼亦分三种：a、针毛鬼，毛利如针，行便自刺。b、臭毛鬼，毛利而臭，自拔受苦。c、大瘿鬼，咽垂大瘿，自抉啖脓。须知，谓少财鬼少得饮食，非真如人间净妙食，苟得厕坑粪秽，已似山珍海味了。多财鬼分三种：a、得弃鬼，常得祭祀，所弃食故；b、得失鬼，常得巷陌，所遗食故； c、势力鬼，具威德势力，常得人间祭祀。譬如人间所供城隍、土地、王爷，乃至一般神只，均属此类。诸类饿鬼，居遍诸趣，随所生处，而受其形，或居海渚，或在山林；或似人形，或似兽形，亦自差别。其寿有五百岁，却以人间一月为一日计。

约‘苦厄’言：以业力因缘，不闻浆水之名，所见清水，皆成脓血，不得饮食，饥渴难当；且常为刀杖驱逼，故恐怖非常。此皆前世谄诳心意，造作中品十恶，感此道身。

6、地狱道

地狱，梵语泥黎，翻为苦具；乃造恶众生，受苦器具；又因居处地下，故名地狱。

约‘类受’言：共有三类（1）根本地狱，即八寒八热地狱；（2）近边地狱，即十六游增地狱；3）孤独地狱，即山间、水中、旷野三处地狱。其形体寿命，受苦轻重，随各差别。其中以阿鼻地狱受罪最剧。总由造作上品五逆十恶，感此道身。

阿鼻，译名无间，为八大根本地狱之一，具五种无间故。（1）者趣果无间，终此身已，直堕于彼，不经中阴故；（2）者受无间，受苦无间断，中无乐故；（3）者时无间，决定一劫（指中劫），相续不断故；（4）者命无间，一劫之中，寿命不绝；纵经剥割烹煮，肢体糜烂，然以行业因缘，冷风吹活，无间断故；（5）者形无间，地狱纵广八万由旬，众生身形亦八万由旬，中无少间，一人多人，皆遍满故。

若论寿命，以八热而言，初等活地狱，寿同四王天五百岁，而以四王天五百岁为一日计，其一昼夜相当人间九百多万岁；二黑绳地狱，寿同忉利天一千岁，而以忉利一千岁为一日计，其一昼夜相当人间三千六百多万岁。如是随六欲天递增，乃至阿鼻，寿一中劫。其苦寿如此，能不畏哉？

约‘苦厄’言：或火坑、或坚冰、或刀山、或剑树、或碾?、或汤镬、或沸屎、或合山等诸多苦具，繁多难述。以沸屎言：在一大热沸屎河中，驱令入中，内有利嘴蛆虫，或从鼻孔入，则脚底出；或从足下入，则口中出，既脏且臭，热恼加刺，苦何以堪？

二、互相轮回

上面六大种类有情众生，所以名‘六道’者，道犹路也，是能通义；谓六道中众生，轮转四生（胎生、卵生、湿生、化生），循环三界，互相通达，故名为道。这即一般常称的‘六道轮回’。轮回的情形，各随业力，或人变鬼、或升天。古人说：‘钻马腹，入驴胎，涂炭曾经几度回，或时天帝殿前过，或向阎君锅里来’ 哪有定算？昔忉利天上帝，尚且不免要入陶家变驴（如法句譬喻经），何况其下的凡夫？

关于六道轮回的道理，在释典中，以十二因缘说得最为明白；若儒书中，易经云：‘精气为物，游魂为变’，‘方以类聚，物以群分’等，亦可知其少分。至于六道轮回的事实，但具天眼、宿命二通者，于一一众生自何道来？往何道去？自可了了悉见；若是未具二通，只要广览诸史，亦不难获多实证。惟其既不研经，又未读史，且不信圣言量者，方一味怀疑排斥。

此六道中，天、人、修罗三道，以因中多为善故，果报亦胜，名三善道；鬼、畜、地狱三道，以因中多为恶故，果报则劣，名三恶道。其三恶道，又称三途，途含二义：一是途炭，取残害义，此中众生，多受残害；二是途道，取所趣义，为造恶众生，所趣向处。1、刀途，即饿鬼道，常为刀杖，所驱逼故；2、血途，即畜生道，必经流血而死故；3、火途，即地狱道，上下四方，一片火海故。

又，六道的凡夫，或升三善道，或堕三恶道，经上喻曰‘头出头没’；谓整个三界六道，就如一大苦海，海中业浪，翻腾汹涌，前浪刚把吾人打出海面，哪知一口鲜气尚未吸足，后浪随来，又将吾人打沉海底。如此，有时头出，有时头没，总是离不开这一
大苦海，这就是吾人的有情环境啊！

大学的回忆 - 第一篇

2008-03-07T07:01:00.005+08:00

很久没写blog了。突然间很想写。就开始打字进去里面了。

大家快要毕业了，所以我想写下来我在大学的回忆，让大家可以回忆一下，五年我们一起经过的时间，和事件。

想起五年前，我刚刚踏入MMU的时候，人生路不熟。只可以靠问前辈和靠自己。还记得，刚刚到的时候，很像一个傻孩子。什么都不懂。只可以慢慢的适应环境，才可以熬到现在。在大学所认识的朋友，来之各省东西，东南西北都有。大家到大学，不只是为了一张文凭，但也学会互相帮忙，团结的精神，及学习怎样变成一个好的领袖者。还记得，第一个参加的学会是日语学会和华文学会。第一年，已经变成筹委会会员。那时候还是很blur blur。还好有前辈指点，才可以一切都顺顺利利。之后，算还参与很多不同的活动，例如，日本文化之周，新春嘉年华会，华语歌唱比赛，创作方发表会，还有很多界外活动。每个活动都让你可以怀念一下，以前的单纯和栟命的精神。

五年的时间，更大家经过的很多风风雨雨，是在一个美好的经验和回忆。五年的时光，说长不长，说短也不短，但是，五年的酸甜苦辣咸，都让我们满满的成长。大家在大学，除了为了获得一张文凭，最重要是建好网络，因为只是在大学，你可以认识到来之各方的同学或老师。有些在大学找到他们的另一半，也有很多成功成立了小事业。但是，如果遇到什么困难或障碍，不要放弃。如果跌倒，也没关系，因为跌倒或失败会让大家成长。

我也不知道为什么每次都喜欢写这种的东西。可是，说真的，写这种东西，会让你有一种满足感。这种满足感是不会再别种地方获得的。

缘份

2007-10-01T04:59:00.001+08:00

凌晨5点，我还没睡，突然间想写东西，就在这边写一点东西吧。

现在是考试时期，很多学生还在开夜车，赶完他们的文戏，或者功课，或者读书。但也许有些人，还像我这样，没读书，没温习，打机，上网。我想澄清一点，我是读到累了才写这编文章。

大学的生活，最短大概有四年，最长又到六年，不要算留级的吧。短短的四到六年，我们可以认识来自不同地方的同学，这是叫做缘份。没有缘份，我就不会认识你们了。没有缘份，你们也不会认识对方。所以呢，在人类的关系里面，缘份是最重要的一点。

其实可以这样讲，人与人之间，不是单单靠缘份，还有别个因素。但种种因素，只可以实现当缘份到。但，我还是相信一个东西，那就是，人与人之间，可以相识和相处，是靠缘份和互相关心。你们相信吗？同意吗？有什么意见，可以放上来，让大家一起分享。

凌晨5点半，是时间睡觉了吧。晚安。

人生

2007-09-30T11:50:00.001+08:00

当你们看到这个题目的时候，会想到什么的角度？目标，意义，或者因果？

我今天打算写一点关于人生的意义。为什么在这个世界上会有人呢？是不是人是最聪明的类种？或者有能力继续在这个世界上生存呢?这个问题，到现在我也不会答.

我们身为人类，或者动物，一定避免不到生老病死。没有一个人会长命百岁，长生不老，这是因为我们作为人的因果。佛经乘经有提到，人是必须经过六道，是因为因果而成。积福，惹祸，这全部也是因和果。

人生短短几十年，最终要是活得有意义。迷迷糊糊的过日子，这是不是浪费了你生存的机会和意义呢？人生如戏台，精彩或沉闷，是你自己要不要弄它，搞它变成更精彩，或悬着沉闷的路线，这个我没办法阻止你。

在这边，想祝福大家，尽量得过精彩的日子。“人生没take two”。

我对男女感情的看法

2007-09-04T00:41:00.001+08:00

今天，雨，突然间心血来潮，想写博格，就这样的开始了咯。

今天，去了朋友生日会。生日会应该是一件高高兴兴的事情。但，今天特别不同。是有人流了眼泪，但是，眼泪也有喜和哀。今天的眼泪，可以讲是哀多过喜。生日那一天，也变成分手的那一天。也许不是那一天分手吧，但，那个悲哀的感情，依然还在心里，无法忘掉他。这样子，不会很痛苦吧。我就觉得应该很痛苦，但当事人并不觉得痛苦，还不断的想办法，怎样才可救回一段很久的感情（我不可以讲是谁啦）。

那我就用甲先生和乙小姐。甲先生可以讲已经完完全全放弃了这段感情，但乙小姐还很想回救这段感情，不舍得放手。这样又何必呢！这样子，会令自己更痛苦。乙小姐到现在还是不断地对对方好，希望有机会，虽然感觉上是没有什么机会，但还有撞头在墙壁上。故事就到这里，接下来可以讲是我的看法。

这样做法，双方面也会很痛苦，这个不算是一种爱情，但可以讲是一种折磨。爱情，不是只要拥有，也不是只是曾经拥有。古语说，不在乎天长地久，只在乎曾经拥有，这一句必须更改。虽然是曾经拥有，但，对待越久，可以说是一种烦恼。我是站在中立人的看法，不帮双方面。男方虽然有错，但女方也不应该这样折磨自己。也许你想你的努力会给你多一次的机会，但，如果你已作了这个事情在一段时间内，还没有什么回报的话，是不是应该也学会怎样放手了吧！你可以对待他更好，我没说你是笨，但如果过了一段时间，还是没有结果的话，我会讲你很笨！

一段感情，但它变淡了，也可以说去到没得回头的路程，是不是应该把这段感情放上句号，这样，对你，对他，有很大的帮忙，也可以令你更快乐。我们做人，不是为了吃饱睡觉。上天自造人，也给了人喜怒哀乐，是要看我们怎样去利用这些感情和感觉，平平淡淡的过日子，人生没风浪，也可以讲是浪费了你的人生。身为人生，应该活的高高兴兴，悲哀的事情也会有，但也一定要让他过去，当它是一种噩梦，明天开始，新的生活。

我的看法到这儿，也需有什么看法，可以留一段短信。